Interpersonal gifts need heart-to-heart

In fact, ceremony is to send your heart and change your heart. Many people are confused. Why doesn't he accept my gifts? Or why are all the gifts I sent out? In fact, as long as we stop and think about it, we can find out why.

The first thing to consider is the situation and occasion at that time. If you decide ahead of time, it will be a day to go and how to tell gifts to be delivered smoothly. Generally choose a suitable reason, such as each other's birthday, child girls, etc., to take this as the reason, give each other gifts can make the other party smoothly accept their own gifts.

Second, gifts must be compared. Just think, are we willing to accept your favorite gift or are you willing to choose a gift that you are too lazy to look at? I believe everyone will say that I am willing to choose gifts that I also like. Therefore, before giving gifts, it is necessary to fully consider the needs of the other party, and not to give gifts that the other party does not like at all and avoid unnecessary flaws.

In addition, when giving gifts, we must grasp the degree of goodness. When we speak in speech form, one action and one eye can make the other person feel some clues. Can not exaggerate, say how expensive their gifts, nor too modest, saying that his gift is a gift. This will make the other party feel that the gift giver is perfunctoring or neglecting each other. Speech, words and deeds must be decent and generous.

In fact, we need to understand empathetic thinking when we are dealing with others in our daily lives. The same is true of moving this empathy to gifts. When gifts are given, they must be carefully considered so that they won’t outweigh the gains.